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Welcome to Divine Chaos

At Divine Chaos, we embody resilience, strength, and empowerment. Our mission is to support women who have experienced domestic abuse by offering a community where survivors can connect, heal, and grow together. Every product is thoughtfully crafted to honor your journey and celebrate your story. Together, we find beauty in chaos and build a space where healing transforms into empowerment.

Unmask the Dark Reality of Domestic abuse and

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Types of Abuse

PHYSICAL
SEXUAL
EMOTIONAL

FINANCIAL
COERCIVE
DIGITAL

PSYCHOLOGICAL

PHYSICAL

Scratching, punching, biting, strangling or kicking.
Throwing something at you such as a phone, book, shoe or plate.
Pulling your hair.
Pushing or pulling you.
Grabbing you to prevent you from leaving or to force you to go somewhere.

SEXUAL

Unwanted kissing or touching.
Unwanted rough or violent sexual activity.
Refusing to use condoms or restricting your access to birth control.
Threatening you into unwanted sexual activity.
Pressuring or forcing you to have sex or perform sexual acts.
Using sexual insults toward you.

EMOTIONAL

Calling you names and putting you down.
Yelling and screaming at you.
Intentionally embarrassing you in public.
Preventing you from seeing or talking with friends and family.
Telling you what to do and wear.
Damaging your property when they’re angry (throwing objects, punching walls, kicking doors, etc.)
Blaming your actions for their abusive or unhealthy behavior.
Threatening to commit suicide to keep you from breaking up with them.
Threatening to harm you, your pet or people you care about.
Making you feel guilty or immature when you don’t consent to sexual activity.

FINANCIAL

Giving you an allowance and closely watching what you buy.
Placing your wages in their account and denying you access to it.
Keeping you from seeing shared bank accounts or records.
Forbidding you to work or limiting the hours you do.
Preventing you from going to work i.e. by taking your car or keys.
Getting you fired by harassing you, your employer or coworkers on the job.
Maxing out your credit cards without your permission.
Refusing to give you money for food, rent, medicine or clothing.
Spending money on themselves but not allowing you to do the same.

COERSIVE

- Unreasonable demands.
- Degradation.
- Restricting daily activities.
- Threats or intimidation.
- Monitoring of time.
- Deprivation of food.
- Destruction of possessions.

DIGITAL

Tells you who you can or can’t be friends with on Facebook and other sites.
Sends you negative, insulting or threatening emails, Facebook messages, tweets, direct messages or other messages online.
Uses sites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and others to keep constant tabs on you.
Posts negative things about you.
Sends you unwanted, explicit pictures and/or demands you send some in return.
Pressures you to send explicit video or sexts.
Steals or insists to be given your passwords.
Constantly texts you and makes you feel like you can’t be separated from your phone for fear that you will be punished.
Looks through your phone frequently, checks up on your pictures, texts and outgoing calls.
Tags you unkindly in pictures on Instagram, Tumblr, etc.

PSYCHOLOGICAL

Gaslighting – manipulating you into doubting your own sanity or reality.
Moving things around the house, or removing them and returning them later, then denying it.
Denying that you or they said things.
Telling you that people have said things about you, or that your friends don’t like you.
Telling you that you have a mental health condition when you haven’t.
Making derogatory jokes about you to others in front of you.
Name calling, telling you you are useless, stupid, worthless and mad.
Questions you endlessly about everything you do or say.

KNOW THE SIGNS OF DOMESTIC ABUSE

Abusive relationships rarely announce themselves loudly. They tend to whisper, then tighten. From the outside, you’re often spotting patterns, not one-off moments. Here are some warning signs that can signal something isn’t right:

Changes in behavior or personality

They’ve become noticeably withdrawn, anxious, or unusually quiet
Once-confident energy fades into second-guessing everything
They seem “on edge,” especially when their partner is mentioned or nearby

Isolation creeping in

They stop showing up to events, friendships fade, excuses pile up
Their partner always seems to be present, listening, or checking in
They mention needing “permission” or worrying about how their partner will react

Constant check-ins and control

Frequent calls or texts from their partner demanding updates
They rush to respond immediately, even mid-conversation
Their partner tracks their location, schedules, or social interactions

Walking on eggshells

They appear overly careful with their words or actions
Small decisions seem stressful, like they’re trying to avoid triggering something
They laugh off or minimize concerning behavior from their partner

Visible or explained-away injuries

Bruises, cuts, or marks with vague or inconsistent explanations
Wearing clothing that seems designed to cover injuries (long sleeves in warm weather, etc.)